User blog:Happy Meadows/An Announcement To Everybody

Okay, look. The point of this post is in no way to be rude to anyone, put anyone down, insult anyone, support anyone, take a side, etc. ..

Point is, I'm getting tired of everyone and their drama on this wiki. First, let me clarify. No, I am not leaving. I will stay on here until whenever it is, maybe in the near future, maybe very far in the future, that I decide, for some reason, I no longer want to be a part of this wiki. But for now, I will continue my games, continue being silly and childish on chat, continue being a part of everyone elses games.

But, I digress. This post is NOT about me. As stated above, this post is about everyone else.

Sometimes, I feel like the oldest (though, I don't think I am), and, no offense to anyone else, the most knowledgeable about the world and the things it throws at you.

So, okay, maybe this blog IS a bit about me. But, anyway, I'll continue. Being 17 (almosy 18), I've been through a lot. Now, obviously, 17 isn't very old at all, and I may be at no liberty to shell out adivce in any capacity. But, I will. Being on a wiki full of mostly, I'd say, 12-14, MAYBE, 15 year olds makes me, I don't know, feel a bit more mature.

Now, growing up in the south (though, luckily, a better and more accepting part of Florida), has been sometimes a bit taxing. If some don't know, I'm gay. Openly at that, and I came out very young. But, that's not, again, what this post is about.

I've dealt with stress longer than most of you may have. I've dealt with all sorts of terrible crap. I've had a job for, my, maybe 10 or 11 years (yes, I worked at age 8). Again, even though I might be making a fool out of myself by doing this, I will anyway. Because I'm older, and have experienced the world more that many of you may have (though I still haven't much, again, being a mere 17 years old), I suppose I feel as though I need to help, or at least try.

I decided to make this post after seeing Nommyzombies "Leaving" post. Not to point fingers at her, but the sheer number of these type of posts, including my friend Mysims', and finally seeing Nommy's, I finally got tired of them. Now, I may be a hypocrite, as I made one of these posts as well. I might be doing something very stupid by making this post, as again, I made one very similar (however, it wasn't because of disputes between friends, it was because some homophobic a**hat, who has since. . . apologized (thank you), made me remember just how sh*tty the world is.) Just how godd** stupid this world is, where if I, or someone like me, meets someone I love and want to spend my life with and legally marry, I can't most places, and most likely won't be able to in my lifetime.

But, again, I digress. That's not what this post is about. IT's about my advice to everyone on here.

Stop. Stop. Just stop. Stop being dic*s to eachother. Stop blaming eachother, arguing with eachother, being mad at your friends, threatening to leave and then sticking around anyway.

Seriously, stop. This post IS NOT meant to make anyone feel bad or upset, but please stop. It can get a bit annoying seeing posts like that EVERYDAY from who knows how many differen't people.

Here's my advice. If someone makes you feel shi**y, and you know they'll continue to, stop talking to them. Ignore them. Here's WHAT NOT TO DO. DON"T ABANDON EVERYONE ELSE WHO CARES ABOUT YOU. Don't leave us because ONE shi**y person is being a jerk. Seriously.

If any of you even bother to read the comments on your "Leaving" posts, you'd realize you're kind of being a jerk to. Do any of you see how many people on this wiki care about eachother, versus one person who might be being an a**? Okay, don't talk to that person! Don't let them in your games, don't enter theirs. Don't talk to them on chat, don't respong to their posts on your page. Delete them.

Now, I understand this might not be prime advice for everyone. If you feel depressed about this, and are, I don't know, feeling sad every moment of your being and considering, perhaps, something I'd rather not mention, then for Christ sakes, get off here. GET HELP, be with real life freinds and family who will be there in physical reality with you.

BUT. But, if you're considering leaving just because one person is being stupid, and you're not REALLY that upset, then don't leave. Stick around, because people on here, despite, no offense to many of you, being sometimes very childish and, it seems, borderling illiterate, are actually very sweet and nice people.

Now, this is my message to Nommyzombies. I don't know you very well, and quite frankly, because of that, I don't consider us friends. However, I don't want you to leave either, just because you're having some very insignigicant argument with one of you're supposed "friends". If their making you that upset, forget about them. Talk to and be friends with the people who want you to stay on here, people who care. BUT, if you really are upset and depressed, again, common sense dictates that you should probably get off here. Again, if not, maybe if you just need to let off some steam, leave for a while.

But don't abandon us entirely. All the above advice goes to anyone else in a similar position, by the way.

It just baffles me how someone can come on here, make friends and connections with so many people, and just up and abandon us because one dumba** decided they where going to shi* all over you. Seriously.

And again, this post is meant to make no one upset or sadder, but if it did, I'm truly sorry. I'm just trying to talk and give some advice to people younger and more vulnerable than I am. I don't know why, but as probably one of the older members of the wiki, I feel compelled to at least try and help. For all I know, after this, everyone might hate me, and I might very well be destroying my reputation on this wiki.

And anyone can take my advice, which will be better in the long run, or they won't. It's all fine with me. Just try to consider what I'm trying to say.

And that's my two pence about all this. Read carefully, and goodnight to everyone.

-HM (will update my other blogs once I wake up).